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		<title>ONE BEDROOM FLAT&#8230;.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[WRITTEN BY AN INDIAN SOFTWARE ENGINEER.. A Bitter Reality As the dream of most parents I had acquired a degree in Software Engineering and joined a company based in USA, the land of braves and opportunity. When I arrived in the USA , it was as if a dream had come true.. Here at last [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>WRITTEN BY AN INDIAN SOFTWARE ENGINEER..</strong><br />
<strong><em>A Bitter Reality</em></strong></p>
<p>As the dream of most parents I had acquired a degree in Software Engineering and joined a company based in USA, the land of braves and opportunity. When I arrived in the USA , it was as if a dream had come true..</p>
<p>Here at last I was in the place where I want to be. I decided I would be staying in this country for about Five years in which time I would have earned enough money to settle down in India .</p>
<p>My father was a government employee and after his retirement,the only asset he could acquire was a decent one bedroom flat.</p>
<p>I wanted to do some thing more than him. I started feeling homesick and lonely as the time passed. I used to call  ome and speak to my parents every week using cheap international phone cards. Two years passed, two years of Burgers at McDonald&#8217;s and pizzas and discos and 2 years watching the foreign exchange rate getting happy whenever the Rupee value went down.</p>
<p>Finally I decided to get married. Told my parents that I have only 10 days of holidays and everything must be done within these 10 days. I got my ticket booked in the cheapest flight. Was jubilant and was actually enjoying hopping for gifts for all my friends back home. If I miss anyone then there will be talks. After reaching home I spent home one week going through all the photographs of girls and as the time was getting shorter I was forced to select one candidate.</p>
<p>In-laws told me, to my surprise, that I would have to get married in 2-3 days, as I will not get anymore holidays. After the marriage, it was time to return to USA , after giving some money to my parents and telling the neighbors to look after them, we returned to USA .</p>
<p>My wife enjoyed this country for about two months and then she started feeling lonely. The frequency of calling India increased to twice in a week sometimes 3 times a week.. Our<br />
savings started diminishing.</p>
<p>After two more years we started to have kids. Two lovely kids, a boy and a girl, were gifted to us by the almighty. Every time I spoke to my parents, they asked me to come to Indiaso that they can see their grand-children.</p>
<p>Every year I decide to go to India &#8230; But part work part monetary conditions prevented it. Years went by and visiting Indiawas a distant dream. Then suddenly one day I got a<br />
message that my parents were seriously sick. I tried but I couldn&#8217;t get any holidays and thus could not go to India &#8230; The next message I got was my parents had passed away and as there was no one to do the last rights the society members had done whatever they could. I was depressed. My parents had passed away without seeing their grand children.</p>
<p>After couple more years passed away, much to my children&#8217;s dislike and my wife&#8217;s joy we returned to Indiato settle down. I started to look for a suitable property, but to my dismay my savings were short and the property prices had gone up during all these years. I had to return to the USA &#8230;</p>
<p>My wife refused to come back with me and my children refused to stay in India &#8230;&#8230; My 2 children and I returned to USAafter promising my wife I would be back for good after two years.</p>
<p>Time passed by, my daughter decided to get married to an American and my son was happy living in USA &#8230;. I decided that had enough and wound-up every thing and returned to India &#8230; I had just enough money to buy a decent 02 bedroom flat in a well-developed locality.</p>
<p>Now I am 60 years old and the only time I go out of the flat is for the routine visit to the nearby temple. My faithful wife has also left me and gone to the holy abode.</p>
<p>Sometimes</p>
<p>I wondered was it worth all this?</p>
<p>My father, even after staying in India ,</p>
<p>Had a house to his name and I too have the same nothing more.</p>
<p>I lost my parents and children for just ONE EXTRA BEDROOM.</p>
<p>Looking out from the window I see a lot of children dancing. This damned cable TV has spoiled our new generation and these children are losing their values and culture because of it. I get occasional cards from my children asking I am alright. Well at least they remember me.</p>
<p>Now perhaps after I die it will be the neighbors again who will be performing my last rights, God Bless them.</p>
<p>But the question still<br />
remains &#8216;was all this worth it?&#8217;</p>
<p>I am still searching for an answer&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..!!!</p>
<p>START THINKING</p>
<p><strong>IS IT JUST FOR ONE EXTRA BEDROOM???</strong></p>
<p><em>LIFE IS BEYOND THIS &#8230;..DON&#8217;T JUST LEAVE YOUR LIFE &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;</em><br />
<em>START LIVING IT &#8230;&#8230;.</em><br />
<em>LIVE ITAS YOU WANT IT TO BE &#8230;&#8230;</em></p>
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